Very interesting!
I have been contemplating this, myself. Yes, I am a married man but I am very attracted to a woman who I walk with twice per week.
It is as if she is a magnet that I am attracted to whether I want to be or not.
I am somewhat thinking of it as her feminine energy, and will be writing a story about the concept of magnetism when it comes to men and women, men and men, women and women, or they and they, whatever.
Perhaps you could write it better than I could, it's just a thought in my head for now.